How Do You Grieve?

February 23, 2008

Note: Thank you love muffins for helping me realize that my sister who was such a beautiful/inspirational force in my life lives in within me, expresses herself through me, surrounds me and because she lived, I stand! Love muffins thank you for the several thousand messages that you sent me on Youtube, Myspace and Gmail - words can’t express how great it feels to be loved and supported by YOU! You have indeed taken me higher!

Love muffins, recently I posted a video about my continuous grieving for my sister. If you haven’t watched the video, please do so. I want to know how do you grieve, because I have been grieving for the past 13 years. So how to you cope after you loose a love one someone?

Here are some of the heartfelt love muffin video responses that touched me to my core especially Alex’s from Orlando, Florida.

To view my angel/love muffin CLICK HERE and please make more video responses so I can get to know you love muffins better!

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10 Responses to “How Do You Grieve?”

BabyBrown on February 23, 2008 at 7:53 pm #

beautiful!
Mona on February 23, 2008 at 8:27 pm #

So many people love you B.Scott you’re such an inspiration to so many ..We love listenin 2 you because you make so many of us happy ..just with your beautiful smile alone…I hope God eases your pain through the years ..love you B.Scott!!!!!
tlt02k on February 23, 2008 at 8:33 pm #

B, you already know that so many people love you! you have so much support here. i agree with Mona, you bring so much of us joy, it is time that we return the favor.
tanyetta on February 23, 2008 at 10:37 pm #

B. Scott–the video responses you’ve received are amazing. And you would be very surprised to know how many of these videos will help other people going through grieving the loss of a loved one.

You touch so many people all across the world.

Hugs to you and may GOD continue to press on your heart to seek him for all your comfort.
Soo Deja Vu on February 23, 2008 at 10:42 pm #

B.Scott WE LOVE YOU BECAUSE YOU LOVE AND THAT’S IT!! NOTHING MORE NOTHING LESS YOU ARE LOVE AND YOU REPRESENT IT WELL
BESOS PAPA
deborah smooth on February 23, 2008 at 11:38 pm #

B. First, I am so profoundly sorry for your loss. Second. I think it is part of what makes us human that we can relive the loss of a loved one and feel that same sharp pain, sometimes stronger than it was when we first had the loss. I think it may be illogical to expect your loss to ease over time because your memories of the person you lost clarify and solidify over time. If anything these memories become very much stronger. So stop this thing you have put upon yourself that you MUST feel better because you are further away in time from your sister. That is clearly causing you more pain that you just don’t need. Own your sadness and your loss. Share as much as you can about your sister to all who will listen. This way how your sister touched your life will live on in everyone who knows you and loves you. Believe me, B. To know you is to love you. Peace.
SAY WHAT :0 on February 24, 2008 at 12:43 am #

WOW!!! thats some positive energy for YOU Bscott!!!
camille on February 24, 2008 at 10:05 am #

that’s real talk b. you have to cry and grieve every now and then for motivation and rejuvenation or cleansing if you will. that’s why you have friends and family to be an ear for your feeling and a hug for your pain. that’s why you have us and we have you!

hugs and kisses my love.
Miss Resee on February 24, 2008 at 7:10 pm #

I truly understand and feel what you are asaying. I lost my father when I was 14 and it has been almost 11 years and it does not go away, get easier it just gets. I want to say that my heart goes out to you because it hurts every single day. Now that I am older I would love for him to meet my friends, boyfriend, let me know if he is proud of me and everything you want your parent for. Love and advice from others helps and it eases the pain, but really if that is someone you cared for, which I can tell that you did, the healing, the crying, the pain never goes away it just gets.

Something that I do to help is that I still talk to him as if he were here, I ask God to help me when talking to a loved one doesn’t cut it and I also just never forget, and when that day comes when God blesses me with children they will know everything that I know about him so that his memory can live on.
So just hang in there, and when you feel the need to cry, whenever wherever and if somebody tells you that you need to move on…SLAP THEY ASS!!!!
** With love and prayers
Miss Resee!!!
jazzyofexclusive on February 24, 2008 at 7:41 pm #

Oh sweety….first of all I wanna say that I am so sorry for your loss. But I know how you feel… I lost my mother 2 years ago and I cry everytime its her birthday, Christmas, Easter, New Years, Thanksgiving is hardest… But to cope we leave an empty seat and set a place where she always sat on thanksgiving and we talk about all the good times we had with her. But since Im only 18 she won’t see her grandchild born, she won’t see me get married and she won’t see me sing on my first real tour but I pray for her and when I talk to god…I talk to her… I hope I could help you in any way! I love you B. Scott!!!!! You really light up my day!!